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About Dr. Victoria Lee

25+ Years of Experience

As a clinical psychologist and sex therapist, I have helped guide hundreds of couples toward the sex solutions they need to transform their sex-lives and relationships.

Passionate & Supportive

I'm privileged to have a gift and passion for my work. I know the the problems most people face, and my track record shows that I also know the solutions.

Dr. Lee has extensive experience as a
  • ...sexual educator and coach
  • ...psychologist and sex therapist
  • ...public speaker
  • guest
  • ... trainer of therapists
  • ... performer of poetry, vocalist and guitarist


Dr. Victoria Lee offers skilled coaching, consultation and education on sexual and relationship concerns by video, phone and email to couples and individuals anywhere, including many foreign countries. As a licensed clinical psychologist in Vallejo, California (north of Berkeley), Dr. Lee specializes in couple counseling and sex therapy.

She integrates complementary methodologies and techniques to offer a highly personalized approach tailored to each client. With compassion and understanding, she works with each individual to help them build on their strengths and attain the personal growth they are committed to accomplishing. Dr. Lee holds a doctoral degree, two master's degrees and a B.A. degree from Georgetown University, Western Graduate School, Southeast Institute and George Washington University.

She is a dynamic public speaker at professional conferences and corporate events, and is available for benefit appearances for charity. Her topics include Six Principles of Sacred Sexuality, Finding Each Other Again, Sex and Spirit, Soul Poetry As Life Guidance, Rumi: History's Most Revered Poet, and many others.

TV and Radio

In addition to being a prominent couples therapist and sex therapist, Dr. Lee is a regular media guest. She is a dynamic public speaker and has presented at conferences around the country and abroad and to general audiences.

Performer of Soul Poetry and Music

Victoria Lee is a lifelong lover of poetry and has years of experience doing public performances of the poetry of Rumi, Hafiz, Mary Oliver and other soul poets. She is a singer-songwriter who loves to perform.

Other bio information

Dr. Lee is a past-President of Santa Clara Valley Marriage and Family Therapists, and is a past Director of the Masters in Counseling Program at College of Notre Dame where she received the Outstanding Professor Award based on student choice. She is a lifetime member of Phi Sigma Tau honorary, and has trained and supervised students from many cultural backgrounds. One of her master's degrees was in psychology and social change. This began a lifelong interest in the ability of psychology and psychotherapy to remedy social injustice and work for social change. She welcomes people of all ethnicities and religions. She supports the Black Lives Matter movement, and is aware of the responsibility of every therapist to be sensitive to racial injustice.